People ask all the time why Donald Trump bothers some of us so much. They expect the answer to be policy. Taxes. Tariffs. Immigration. Judges. The usual cable-news buffet. And yes, all of that matters. But the deeper answer is uglier and harder to undo. Trump did not just change policy arguments. He helped change what millions of Americans believe is acceptable behavior. When cruelty gets permission, decency becomes the first thing pushed out of the room. That may be one of h